BE DROOM BEHAVIOURS: CREATING YOUR OWN OASIS
Is your bedroom a refuge from the hectic outside world, a place where you can escape from the children? Is it a place you love to go to recharge your batteries? If it isn’t, perhaps you need to look at your own needs, and create a space there which is inspiring and relaxing for you to retire to whenever you feel the need. Make it an oasis of peace, pleasure and calm for yourself or with your partner. If you have negative feelings about your bedroom, look closely at your life and examine the intimate and sexual aspects of it. Are there issues in this area that you need to sort out, or past events you need to discard, or repressed emotions you need to deal with? Believe it or not, redecorating the bedroom, a little or a lot, will bring these issues to a head and help to clear the energy. This is healthy.
If you cannot change the bedroom at least change the colour of the towels in your ensuite bathroom leading from the bedroom. If you don’t have an ensuite, then look at your family bathroom. The bathroom is an emotional extension of you, so even a move as small as differently coloured towels can influence your mood.
Making even small colour changes in your bedroom can indicate your changing emotional needs. If you find yourself needing to put white flowers or white sheets into the bedroom you are really seeking new beginnings in your life, or within your current relationship. Pink sheets may indicate that you are in need of some tender loving care. Adding green touches may suggest a need for relaxation and rejuvenation. If an overactive sex life is leaving you exhausted, add some green to the room to create more balance – maybe a plant. If blue is involved in your changes, you may be looking to create a calming respite from a hectic lifestyle.
You have identified the colour choice you have made in your bedroom and its psychological subconscious impact, so what next? You can:
* acknowledge and muse on where you are up to in your sexual life
* change a few items of colour to change your relationships « do nothing and enjoy what you have
* decide to explore your heart and needs and discuss your unhappiness with your partner
* if you live alone, create the bedroom you’d love to have, one which will give you great pleasure and satisfaction
We all move through different colour stages in our lives because of different circumstances, emotions and relationships. None of these is ‘right’ or ‘wrong’. They just are.
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