PREMATURE EJACULATION – FIRST SEXUAL ENCOUNTER
Studies by several sexual counsellors show that men who are premature ejaculators frequently had sexually inhibited parents, who had taught the boy that sex was something rather shameful. In adolescence or young manhood the man’s first sexual encounter was associated with guilt. He may have had his first sexual experience with a prostitute who wanted the man to ‘finish it off quickly’, or it was in an inappropriate place where the couple could be surprised by parents or passers-by. The anxiety caused by this possible eventuality led to a furtive, speedy, and unsatisfactory sexual experience, which was often repeated.
The theory that most men with premature ejaculation have had stressful initial sexual encounters is not the only one. After all, many men have hurried or unrelaxed sexual encounters; trying to make it with one ear for the steps on the stairs; or one eye on the darkening lane; but only a few appear to become premature ejaculators. Moreover, men who have been cured of premature ejaculation often feel anxious when highly aroused sexually that they are going to ejaculate too soon – but they very rarely do.
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